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今天8月9日是我的祖國,新加坡43嵗生日!!!

Happy Birthday SINGAPORE!!!!!!!喔呵呵~~~~~

不過可惜的是，本人不在自己的家鄉…不能和在家人朋友一起慶祝…

只好在網上的live streaming 看慶典了…..

今年的慶典地點很不錯哦，是在Marina Bay，不但Singapore River 為背景，

而且還能看見新建好的摩天輪和旁邊其他的建築物。如 The Esplanade, Fullerton Hotel 和 Benjamin Sheares Bridge！！！

煙花也還是如此那麽的多姿多彩~~好懷念啊！！！

聼到大家一起唱起愛國歌，自己有點想哭的衝動，令我有些觸感….好想回家哦…… L

這是我國的國旗(1959年12月3日揭幕)，是由紅,白這兩种色組成. 國旗的上半部是紅色,下半部是白色.在最左上角的是一個白色的月牙兒和五顆白色的星星排成的一個圓圈. 國旗上的每一個特診都有著它的含義，紅色代表著手足情誼與平等， 白色代表著永恆的純潔和美德。月牙兒代表了代表一個年輕的國家就方興未艾，最後的五顆星代表著民主，和平，前進，正義和平等的意思.

希望明年我能在家請眼看到煙花！！~~

Happy Birthdae SINGAPORE！！！！

首先要感謝大家幫我慶生~~

非常感謝！！！

不好意思要讓你們破費了…..

 [生日禮物]

那天cheryl跟我說…”This time round you win wen yeow liao”….

我就當場傻眼一下..“啊？？！why??”

因爲這學期有許多壽星公和壽星婆，也參與的好機回的birthday celebrations..…就代表大家會一起買禮物和蛋糕給壽星慶生………………………………

原本排行榜上的贏家是朱小弟（朱文燿）

記得上次..

‘老爸’（Patrick）對著我這策劃人開玩笑的說“他的禮物最貴就算了..連蛋糕也貴…貴貴烏龜啊....”哈哈..

但是文燿，你落榜了…哈哈~~~

排行榜

1.  胖妞

2.  朱小弟

3.  Mr “Yang” etc…. etc… 哈哈 ~~

[以上以外號代表當事人]

哈哈説來說去..還是那句話…謝謝了…讓我第一次在北京過那麽快樂的生日，又是唯一有兩個生日蛋糕的人… :P

真令人難忘….

2008年08月08日，

這是個特別的日子。因爲除了是我生日以外也是北京奧運的開幕典禮.朋友都祝賀我,說很幸運的我生日和奧運的開幕是同一天。 我媽也說…”唉全中國再幫你慶生耶…不錯哦….” 嘿嘿~~不過今天去不到那兒,因爲奧運的開幕,許多商場都在5點停業也有許多路被封。

宿舍的朋友今天也約好積聚在一起邊看奧運的開幕邊吃烤串的...大家都很期待開幕典禮的儀式..不過呢...這個過程超累的！！從膀晚7點等到淩晨12點！！！哎喲...累垮了...總共看了204國家的選手...嗯.....雖然累，不過當中有很養眼的選手....哈哈！！只要有帥哥的一幕，女生都會狂叫，男生也不例外！！ 哈哈。。真是的！

當中，我很無奈的問cheryl，“though u said the my birthdae cake will be here by todae....but where is it??"..她回我說 "Thanks to olympics...there road block todae, therefore they can only deliver the cake tomorrow".....當時... I  was like "WHAT!!!???? No way!!"...就鬱悶起來....也要感謝其他外來的演奏家們，那麽會演！！他們就互演啊...我還真的任命說”那就明天切蛋糕好了".........

呵呵...沒想到..在看奧運的途中........ TA DA!!!~~~~~    [Oh my gosh!!!~]

今年的生日蛋糕和去年的蛋糕沒太大的變化,就是我最愛的Awfully Chocolate蛋糕！只不過去年是在上海慶生而今年換到北京…..沒想到來了北京，竟然還能找到它！！我帥帥的Roommate 去了很遠的東邊給我訂了生日蛋糕，而且一訂就是兩個蛋糕哦！！真的感激不盡！！咳。。我真的會超想念你。。不要去Demark 好嗎？？一走就要一年。。。。咳。。sob..sob…..

[看我這超開心的表情！！哈哈也是我最近流行拍照的style]

不過，我真的要感謝認識不久的朋友為我慶生…有Cheryl, 文燿，德信，“老爸”(patrick), “少爺”， 小白，孟曉，逸珊，汕子和魯靜。。呵呵。。好多人哦~~還有其他許多發簡訊祝賀我的朋友們！！！真的很感謝你們大家！！特別感動的是我的主課老師，樊薇給我發了祝賀的簡訊。内容有些感人。。看了后有些感想。。“老師。。我不會辜負你的”！！還有記偉！！！大老遠的從新加坡給我打電話。。總而言之是些感人的事。。。。

連續德3天慶生活動也在今天圓滿地結束了，也是開始收拾心情的時候為來領的比賽做好準備了。

加油吧！！！“22嵗”了。。。不要太幼稚了！！呵呵~~~

忍耐了两周，终于。。。我的脚终于又复活了！！因为之前朋友们都在忙着期末考。。所以我也跟着他们一起闭关修练了。。。

连续两天的狂跳。。。从mix 到vics再到今天的propagenda。。哈哈实在太过瘾了。。呵呵。。。不过今天一起去propagenda的原班人马，有的出去旅游，有的回家，所以便换了个组合。。哈哈。。这么说呢？？

就是很奇怪的组合咯。。是由我们剩下几位还住在宿舍的朋友一起去！！ 真的。。平时不跟我们去玩的朋友。。今天反而组织起来超奇怪的组合。。。 来客串的有yuki，徐权，良田 。。。。哈哈。。而剩余的平时有一起去跳舞的朋友有慧庆，cheryl，patrick (老爸) 和我。。。哈哈。。

今天我才发现原来良田也是那么疯狂的！！真是人不可貌相！呵呵。。。 2008年7月11日的舞王就是黄良田（马来西亚榴莲王子）！！！哈哈哈哈哈～～～～～他第一次和我们去跳舞，既然能从凌晨1点跳到4点不休息！！他真的赢了！！哈哈哈～～

还有也是另外件难过的事，我们的“瓯妈”（韩语妈妈的意思）刚大学毕业，后天即将要回国了。。虽然认识她不久，但给我的感觉她是位非常亲切也很关心朋友的人。。超舍不得。。。。希望下次有机会能到韩国找你去～ ：）

And before you claim, whether single or married, that you never flirt, bear in mind that it's not just talk we're dealing with here. It's gestures, stance, eye movement. Notice how you lean forward to the person you're talking to and tip up your heels? Notice the quick little eyebrow raise you make, the sidelong glance coupled with the weak smile you give, the slightly sustained gaze you offer? If you're a woman, do you feel your head tilting to the side a bit, exposing either your soft, sensuous neck or, looking at it another way, your jugular? If you're a guy, are you keeping your body in an open, come-on-attack-me position, arms positioned to draw the eye to your impressive lower abdomen?

Scientists call all these little acts "contact-readiness" cues, because they indicate, nonverbally, that you're prepared for physical engagement. (More general body language is known as "nonverbal leakage." Deep in their souls, all scientists are poets.) These cues are a crucial part of what's known in human-ethology circles as the "heterosexual relationship initiation process" and elsewhere, often on the selfsame college campuses, as "coming on to someone." In primal terms, they're physical signals that you don't intend to dominate, nor do you intend to flee--both useful messages potential mates need to send before they can proceed to that awkward talking phase. They're the opening line, so to speak, for the opening line.

One of the reasons we flirt in this way is that we can't help it. We're programmed to do it, whether by biology or culture. The biology part has been investigated by any number of researchers. Ethologist Irenaus Eibl Eibesfeldt, then of the Max Planck Institute in Germany, filmed African tribes in the 1960s and found that the women there did the exact same prolonged stare followed by a head tilt away with a little smile that he saw in America. (The technical name for the head movement is a "cant." Except in this case it's more like "can.")

Evolutionary biologists would suggest that those individuals who executed flirting maneuvers most adeptly were more successful in swiftly finding a mate and reproducing and that the behavior therefore became widespread in all humans. "A lot of people feel flirting is part of the universal language of how we communicate, especially nonverbally," says Jeffry Simpson, director of the social psychology program at the University of Minnesota.

Simpson is currently studying the roles that attraction and flirting play during different times of a woman's ovulation cycle. His research suggests that women who are ovulating are more attracted to flirty men. "The guys they find appealing tend to have characteristics that are attractive in the short term, which include some flirtatious behaviors," he says. He's not sure why women behave this way, but it follows that men who bed ovulating women have a greater chance of procreating and passing on those flirty genes, which means those babies will have more babies, and so on. Of course, none of this is a conscious choice, just as flirting is not always intentional. "With a lot of it, especially the nonverbal stuff, people may not be fully aware that they're doing it," says Simpson. "You don't see what you look like. People may emit flirtatious cues and not be fully aware of how powerful they are."

Flirting with Intent

Well, some people anyway. But then there are the rest of you. You know who you are. You're the gentleman who delivered my groceries the other day and said we had a problem because I had to be 21 to receive alcohol. You're me when I told that same man that I liked a guy who knew his way around a dolly. (Lame, I know. I was caught off guard.) You're the fiftysomething guy behind me on the plane before Christmas telling his fortysomething seatmate how sensual her eyes were--actually, I hope you're not, because if so, you're really skeevy. My point is, once you move into the verbal phase of flirtation, it's pretty much all intentional.

And there are some schools of thought that teach there's nothing wrong with that. Flirtation is a game we play, a dance for which everyone knows the moves. "People can flirt outrageously without intending anything," says independent sex researcher Timothy Perper, who has been researching flirting for 30 years. "Flirting captures the interest of the other person and says 'Would you like to play?'" And one of the most exhilarating things about the game is that the normal rules of social interaction are rubberized. Clarity is not the point. "Flirting opens a window of potential. Not yes, not no," says Perper. "So we engage ourselves in this complex game of maybe." The game is not new. The first published guide for how to flirt was written about 2,000 years ago, Perper points out, by a bloke named Ovid. As dating books go, The Art of Love leaves more recent publications like The Layguide: How to Seduce Women More Beautiful Than You Ever Dreamed Possible No Matter What You Look Like or How Much You Make in its dust. And yes, that's a real book.

Once we've learned the game of maybe, it becomes second nature to us. Long after we need to play it, we're still in there swinging (so to speak) because we're better at it than at other games. Flirting sometimes becomes a social fallback position. "We all learn rules for how to behave in certain situations, and this makes it easier for people to know how to act, even when nervous," says Antonia Abbey, a psychology professor at Wayne State University. Just as we learn a kind of script for how to behave in a restaurant or at a business meeting, she suggests, we learn a script for talking to the opposite sex. "We often enact these scripts without even thinking," she says. "For some women and men, the script may be so well learned that flirting is a comfortable strategy for interacting with others." In other words, when in doubt, we flirt.